Sense of purpose?
Ever found yourself staring at the ceiling at 2 a.m., wondering, What am I actually doing with my life? You’re not alone. Finding your purpose can feel a bit like trying to assemble IKEA furniture without the instructions—confusing, frustrating, and occasionally involving tears. But don’t worry, you’ve got this (and no Allen keys required)!
Let’s talk about what this whole “purpose” thing is, why it’s not just for monks or motivational speakers, and how you can find yours without moving to a remote mountain or buying a llama.
I have spent years trying to find out what was mine- and only just found it, this year!
So, What Is Purpose Anyway?
Let’s keep it simple: your purpose is the thing that makes life feel a bit less like a hamster wheel and a bit more like a dance floor (whether you’ve got the moves or not). It’s that spark that gets you out of bed in the morning—yes, even on a Monday. It doesn’t have to be grand or world-changing, just something that feels right for you.
Think of it as your “why.” Not your boss’s why, your neighbour’s why, or that friend on Instagram’s why (you know, the one with the avocado toast and #blessed captions). This is all about you.
Why Bother Finding Your Purpose?
Because winging it only gets you so far. Sure, you can drift along, letting life happen to you, but where’s the fun in that? Finding your purpose gives you direction, energy, and—dare I say it—a bit of joy. It’s like finally switching on the sat nav and realising you’ve been heading the wrong way for hours. Awkward, but fixable.Life is a bit like that- but having your REAL sense of purpose is a game changer!
Plus, life’s just better when you’re doing what lights you up. Your purpose isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being you—authentically, unapologetically, wonderfully you. You feel alive - you have found your mojo!
How to Find Your Purpose (Without Breaking a Sweat)
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Stop Overthinking It
Seriously, stop. Purpose isn’t hiding in some secret corner of the universe. It’s usually already somewhere in your life—you just need to notice it. Start by asking yourself: What do I actually enjoy? What makes me lose track of time? What do people thank me for? ( Our book "Just for you" goes into this!) -
Follow Your Curiosity
Not sure what you’re passionate about? That’s fine! Start with what makes you curious. Try new things, say yes to random opportunities, and see where they take you. Your purpose often reveals itself in the middle of an experiment, not at the start. -
Embrace the Mess
Finding purpose isn’t a straight line—it’s more like a squiggly doodle. You’ll try things, fail at some, and succeed at others. That’s not a setback; it’s all part of the process. Have a laugh about it and keep going. Life is far too short to worry about being perfect. Draw outside the lines. Lets have some fun! -
Think Small
Forget about saving the planet or launching the next big thing (unless that’s your life goal). Purpose doesn’t have to be huge; it just has to matter to you. Maybe it’s making people smile, helping your community, or simply being the best version of yourself. It may be wiring a book, making someone smile, teaching... you will know what feels right. -
Tune Out the Noise
Everyone’s got an opinion on what you should be doing, but newsflash: it’s your life! Tune out the chatter and trust your gut. You’re the one who has to live with your choices, so make them count.
Still Feeling Stuck?
Here’s a little secret: you don’t have to figure it all out right now. Purpose isn’t a one-time discovery; it’s a lifelong journey. What feels meaningful today might shift as you grow, and that’s okay. The important thing is to start somewhere—anywhere—and let the rest unfold.
So, here’s my challenge for you: take one small step this week to explore what lights you up. Call a friend, try a new hobby, or even just sit quietly and think about what matters most to you. You don’t need all the answers, just the willingness to ask the questions. ( "Just for you" gives you some hints and tips on this)
And remember, your purpose isn’t out there waiting to be found. It’s already in you, just waiting for you to notice. 😊
You’ve got this!